Hi! I'm Amanda Alexander PCC, Director of Coaching Mums. Welcome to the blog!

Since founding Coaching Mums in 2003, I've helped thousands of working mums across the World to create a sense of balance, fulfillment and success on their own terms.

Here on the blog, you'll find tonnes of free online coaching tools and tips to help you as a working mum to juggle all the roles you play... without losing the plot!

Life Work Balance Tip: Control Freak Mums Anonymous

Thursday, November 18, 2010

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It’s Official: Why you no longer need to feel guilty for being a working mum

Monday, November 01, 2010

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You’ve heard it before, I’m sure.  Perhaps in the check-out line at the grocery store, or at the playground on a Saturday afternoon.  Maybe you’ve even come across it in the office!  You know what I’m talking about—the snarky comments and upturned noses or even the gasps of blatant scorn.  Raise a hand if you’ve ever gotten a reaction like that when you’ve told people you’re a working mum.  Read More



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Working Mums Debate: Can you have it all? And do you actually want it all?

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

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We’ve come a long way, baby, so the saying goes.  But, have we really? This question arises frequently within my working parents’ and working mums’ group coaching discussions.  How far have the perceptions of society progressed with regards to motherhood and a mother’s decision to work outside the home?  Read More



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Catriona Welsby commented on 27-Oct-2010 10:08 AM
Thanks for a great article Amanda! I hadn't actually heard about Emma Thompson's remarks but find it hard to believe that she manages to get her kids to and from school/nursery, cook their dinner each night, help with homework, clean the home, and do her day job which involves time out on location etc etc. There is absolutely no way she does all that without any help, even if that help comes from family and friends.

But what I found really interesting was that your article made me think about what 'having it all' means. Some people may think I 'have it all' - two flexible businesses with a great income, working part-time hours, being able to take my son to school and pick him up..... But I don't feel like I have it all. Let's face it, some extra money would always be nice, extra time with our children would always be nice, extra time with our partners would always be nice. I don't believe anyone 'has it all' because whatever level we are at, there's always something another rung up. As humans, we are never 100% content with what we've got (or at least not for longer than a month or so in my humble opinion!).

The definition of 'having it all' depends on the individual. For some women, 'having it all' is being able to be a stay-at-home mum without any financial concerns. For others, 'having it all' is being able to work full time in a job they love, whilst enjoying their children at evenings and weekends. For others, it's having flexible, part-time businesses that make a great income.

So we can go on striving to 'have it all', but I don't think any of us will ever truly believe we've achieved that. And do we really want to? Life might be boring if there was nothing else to aim for!

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10 Top Tips from a man on staying young, happy and keeping your relationship alive:

Tuesday, September 07, 2010

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I hope you enjoy these 10 tips written by my husband Chris, to help you have a strong, healthy and happy relationship!
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Life Work Balance Tip:How to Reduce Work Related Stress as a Working Mum

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

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Working mothers recognise the value in maintaining a career outside of the home.  Aside from the financial benefits of a regular pay cheque, work provides women with a sense of identity, purpose, and passion apart from our maternal and domestic roles.  Yet, as working mothers, we also face the dual burden of “second-shift” work, meaning we often suffer from burnout and the tendency to overextend ourselves.  While a certain amount of stress can be a positive motivator, overexertion is dangerous and leaves women feeling overwhelmed and at the brink of insanity.  How can working mums reduce their stress levels and avoid burnout? Understanding the importance and learning about work life balance will help you ditch the guilt and stop the burnout.  But in the meantime, to take control of all that life throws your way, try the following work life balance tips to help release tension and improve your mood.  Read More



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Eleven Commandments for Mumpreneurs

Monday, June 21, 2010

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As a mumpreneur you are pulled in a million different directions every day.  Here are my 11 tips to help you make the most of the day and feel good about it!   Read More



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Suffragettes, Sinatra and Pants: Your First Three Principles of Work Life Balance

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

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What do the Suffragettes, Frank Sinatra and a pair of pants have in common?   Together, they illustrate principles one, two and three of the seven principles of work life balance for working mums. I’ve put together seven of the most important principles for working mums who want to stay the course, retain their sanity…and still have time for a giggle at the end of the day!   Read More



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Do you spend 49 minutes per day with your kids?

Friday, June 11, 2010

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BBC online published a story last week following the findings of a study which was conducted ahead of the UK's National Family Week which takes place next week. And it's really got my goat!

According to the study quoted by the BBC, parents spend on average 49 minutes per day with their children.

The survey says that of 3,000 parents surveyed, 68% cite money as a barrier to spending more time with their family.   Read More



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Five Great IPhone Apps For Working Mums

Wednesday, May 05, 2010

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Tens of thousands of applications are there to really help us enjoy our iPhones. It's not too much of a stretch to say that the iPhone has completely revolutionised the way that we communicate.  Read More



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Elaina commented on 17-May-2010 06:54 PM
Have you tried Sleep Cycle? It monitors how well you're sleeping. Not for those who are up with babies in the night - obviously you're not sleeping! But good if you're worrying you're not getting enough sleep. Or just if you're interested. Have fun!

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MORE Nuggets of Wisdom from the 40+

Monday, February 01, 2010

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For those of you who are new to Inspire or missed the last edition, I was talking about turning 40 and a wonderful book a friend gave me for my birthday called “Feel Fab Forever: The Anti-Ageing Health and Beauty Bible” by Josephine Fairley and Sarah Stacey.   Even though the book is essentially a beauty guide, it’s packed full of wisdom from women who have gone beyond the 40 milestone.  I was so inspired that I decided to scribble down some of the best nuggets to share with you here.  If you missed the first ten nuggets, you can read them on my blog.  Read More



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